My husband lost all his confidence while trying to find a new job

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    DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband has tried so hard to turn his life around but his confidence plummeted after being turned down for hundreds of jobs – the latest cleaning toilets. He is 26, I am 23. I work in a shop but he has no qualifications. Every trip to the Jobcentre knocks a little more out of him His dad had none either and was only interested in short-term, cash-in-hand work. We’ve only been married a year but we’re already in debt. He has tried really hard to get permanent work but after so many applications and interviews, he is at breaking point. He would love to go into engineering and I fully support him in this because he has a talent for it, but he has no degree. Every trip to the Jobcentre knocks a little more out of him. Get in touch with Deidre Every problem gets a personal reply, usually within 24 hours weekdays. Send an email to deardeidre@the-sun.co.uk You can also send a private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page. I feel my life is falling apart. I hate to see him so low and unable to do anything about it. Most read in Dear Deidre DEIDRE’S STORIES Paige misses dating and wants to play around despite romance with Aaron SHOCK TIMES I shot IPL laser device in eyes in hair removal mishap, I fear I may go blind IN DEEP WATER Sex drive has gone since daughter’s birth, we’ve not been intimate for a year SECOND TIME’S A CHARM I want a second chance at love with somebody else than my wife TOO CLOSE FOR COMFORT My best friend keeps asking me for threesome – it’s weirding me out DEAR DEIDRE I left my wife for woman I met on the train – I now live in a hotel room alone DEIDRE SAYS: You are going through tough times but it’s encouraging that he has got the determination to keep applying. It’s also very positive that he has a clear sense of what he would like to do. Many would have given up already and his tenacity will stand him in good stead. MORE FROM DEAR DEIDRE DEIDRE’S STORIES Paige misses dating and wants to play around despite romance with Aaron DEAR DEIDRE I left my wife for woman I met on the train – I now live in a hotel room alone Have a look at the Prince’s Trust (princes-trust.org.uk), which helps people aged 13-30 get into work, education or training. I’m also sending you two support packs – Guide For Job Hunters, which will help his self-confidence and boosting his CV, and Solving Debt Problems, which has lots of resources.

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